Boys become men when they :

-. Follow you when you walk out.
- Call you backwhen you hang up.
- Tolerate your crying over love stories
- Hand you the remote control.
- Says "I`m sorry" and tells you he needs you.

Fyqa XOXO

30/7/2011 ; 2:15 AM

Thing`s guys shouldn`t do

1. Cheating

Do the cheating without fear repercussions. He doesn`t realize that what they do affects the relationship. Any trust that we were able to build with our significant other is gone once the cheating has been discovered. If you don`t love us anymore then it is time to leave us not cheat. 

2. Say "My ex always/never/used/ to..."

If your ex still on your mind so much that you need to constantly bring her up, then why are you dating us? Relationship are difficult enough without the ghost of your ex floating around. Either get back with her or shut up.

3. Praise other girls like "Baby, she`s hot, she`s pretty, she`s cute and blaa blaa"

Seems kinda obvious, but this mistakes has been made before. Just because we say the chick are hot doesn`t mean you should tell us that girls is mad sexy, hot and pretty awesome. We like to think that at least in your eyes, we are the preetiest woman on the earth. Pointing out that someone else is attractive will not earn you any brownie points. We don`t want to know if you think anyone else is preety. Just ZIP it!

4. Say "She`s just a friend"

Yeah right. If she`s attractive and single we see her as a threat. If she really is just a friend let us know the reason why. Is it bcause she`s not your type, she has a boyf, she has an annoyinh personality? We like to be reassured tht you`re not secretly into your "Friend"

5. Give us lack of emotional support

Everyone wants to be loved and everyone has feelings. Not everyone can show their feelings. When we are with you, we want you to love us unconditionally, honor us and pay attention to our need. Is tht hard for you? :'(

6. Trying to make a fight

Fighting lets out everything we have been holding in, the feelings tht have been making us unhappy. Sometimes, we cannot forget or forgive these things. How to avoid? Try to calm down before we talk to em and stay calm when we do talk to them. Yeahh! Be mature Fyqa :)

7. Being bored in a relationship

Some relationship fall into routine leaving some to feel it has grown stale and rather "boring". We need to remember tht a relationship is a blessing. It would be a shame to let the relationship die bcause both people could not keep the spirit alive, keep the relationship fresh and alive by doing something special you think we would enjoy.

8. Compare us with other girls

We are not other girls! We just being ourself, don`t ever compare us! Enough said.

9. Share our love story with your close female friends

No need to ask your close "female friends" for relationship advice or when you`re confused or anything. If we are arguing, it probably isn`t a good idea.

10. Ask a woman, "Wht can`t you be more like blaa and like blaa and like blaa"

Just love the way we are. No need to complain anything about our dress up, face and so on. No one perfect!

Fyqa XOXO

16/7/2011 ; 1:35 PM

My wishes.

I wish that we could see if we could be something.
I wish I was your favorite girl.
I wish you thought I was the reason you are in the world.
I wish my smile was your favorite kind of smile.
I wish the way that I dressed was your favorite kind of style.
I wish you`d hold my hand when I was upset.
I wish you`d never forget the look on my face then we first met.
I wish that you needed me.
I wish that you knew when I said two sugars, actually I meant three.
I wish that without me your heart would break.
I wish that without me you`d be spending the rest of your nights awake.
I wish that without me you couldn`t eat.
I wish I was the last thing on your mind before you went to sleep.
Basically, I wish that you loved me.

Fyqa XOXO

15/7/2011 ; 4:12 PM

Before I sleep ..

I DO A LOT OF THINKING BEFORE I GO TO SLEEP 

I play scenes in my head .
I practice the things I want to say .
I have endless "what IFS"
I make plans for the next day
I think of all the people I miss
I think of all the ones I hate
I ask myself a lot of questions 

Fyqa XOXO

13/7/2011 ; 9:42 PM

11 painful things :

1. Bringing back the feeling you've learned to forget.
2. Reminiscing the good times.
3. Trying to hide what you really feel.
4. Loving someone who loves another.
5. Having a commitment with someone you know would not last.
6. Shielding your heart to love somebody.
7. Loving a person to much.
8. Right the love at the wrong time.
9. Taking risk to fall in love again.
10. Accepting that it was never meant to be.
11. "What ifs".

Fyqa XOXO

13/7/2011 ; 9:28 PM

Guys dont know ...

Guys don't know everything girls do for you. Guys don't know girls find everything related to you. Lyrics, quotes, movies - everything. Guys don't know that girls could stay up late in the night just to wait for you get online and talk for a while. Guys don't know how girls feel when u say you've got to go, and the "Goodbye part" begins. Guys have no idea of how many fights girls could have had with our parents or friends just to go out or talk to you. Guys don't know that girls walk a little faster or take different ways at guys, dont know that girls can talk about you with anyone and not get bored. Guys don't know how girls can find lovely and cute EVERY SINGLE DETAIL OF YOU. Guys won't ever know how girls try to hide our feelings with you. Guys have no idea of how much girls would give up or leave behind for you. Guys won't ever pain , just to be okay with you. Guys won't ever understand why girls are so complicated, well it's because of guys. Guys have no idea of how much girls love you. Girls feel identified with all this , and it's all because of guys.

Fyqa XOXO

13/7/2011 ; 12:55 AM

Mama :')

Dear Mom , 

I don`t tell you this often enough.

But I really love you.

You`re such an important person in my life.

And I really appriciate all that you do for me.

Thanks for all the sacrifices you`ve made.

Place know that they don`t go unnoticed.

Believe  me mom .

I could never ask for any other mother than you.

You`re definitely the best I will ever have .

And I really LOVE you soo muchh.

Even though  I`m not so great in expressing it.

"M" - is for the million things she gave me.

"O" - means only that she`s growing old.

"T" - is fot the tears she shed to save me.

"H" - is her heart of purest gold.

"E" - is for her eyes, with love-light shining.

"R" - means right , and right she`ll always be.

               MOTHER

Fyqa XOXO
5/7/2011 ; 12:04 PM

What my heart want to say .

You`re amazing , soo amazing . Have I told you enough , you`re my angel . God knows I`ve been blessed with love. But if I gone tomorrow , would you know how deep my loves goes. Have I ever told you , you`re the one .   A love so tender , I surrender. To this feeling so true. My affirmation , my inspiration , dear I`ve been blessed with you. You make me like flying , I`m sailing on your ocean. That everytime you look at me , you see it in my eyes. If the words don`t come my way , hope you still know hope it still shows hope it still love . If the words don`t come my way , hope you still know what my heart want to say.

Fyqa XOXO

3/7/2011 ; 8:23 PM

When I push you away it doesn`t mean I want you to stop trying.

I want you to keep trying. Keep talking to me. I just want to see how much effort you give to just talk to me. No matter how much I push you away. I want you to push back twice as hard. Just because I`m being mean, doesn`t mean I don`t want to talk to you. I jusst want to see how much you can endure and effort you put, and its hard for me too because all just I want to do is just talk to you, I`m just mad because sometimes I feel you don`t feel the same way.

Fyqa XOXO

1/7/2011 ; 2:22 PM

GIRLS LANGUAGE

- If I didn`t call you. It`s because I`m waiting for you to call me.
- When I`m sad and I walked away from you. Follow me.
- When I push or hit you. Grab me and don`t let me go.
- When I`m quite. Ask me what`s wrong.
- When I ignore you. Give me your attention.
-When you see me starting to cry. Hold me and tell me everything`s gonna be alright.
& When I`m about to give up. Say you wont let me go.

Fyqa XOXO

1/7/2011 ; 7:11 AM